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Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 06:49 pm
So, it's neatly two months since I finished moving to London, and since I last updated LJ. These two things may not be entirely unrelated.

Can suddenly understand WHY the region within the M25 is such a gravity well - it's not that there's nothing to do out there, it's just that there's SO MUCH to do in here.

Random snapshots of the past two months:
  • Walking through St James Park on a bright crisp New Year's Day towards the princess exhibition in Kensington Palace... then walking on without going in, because on days like that a museum in London is like a fishtank in an ocean

  • Riding buses, especially new buses, and wanting to jump off at every stop and rush into all the restaurants/bars/shops and eat/drink/get dry cleaning down in each and every one

  • Leonardo di Vinci exhibition at the National (after Ellie got us tickets by queuing for 6 hours on the coldest morning of the year) - fascinating seeing such familiar paintings not just as capital-A Art, but rediscovering them both as a product of a (rapidly changing) place and time, and as the nexus of a kalidescope of preparatory sketches and studies after that all blurred into one another - all wrapped up in the pursuit of very euclidean perfection

  • The Correspondents at Cafe de Paris and falling head over heels into Moon over Soho via early 20th century decadence and stilt-walking transvestites

  • Lectures at the Wellcome on the brain, and the nature of consciousness, and therefore humanness and reality, which of course struggled in places but were fascinating (often as much for the exposed ~whys~ of the panelists and the audience as for anything they actually said)

  • Double bill of Fargo and Red State, followed by two hours of non-stop, impassioned, self-interrupting talk about dick jokes, and protesting the Westboro Baptist Church, and what it means to create from Silent Bob himself... complete with comedy photo-ops (and impressed by Red State, which I've not seen before - the comedy and horror aspects were very jarring, but it worked all the better for that, and it was at once not at all a Kevin Smith movie and completely a Kevin Smith movie, which is quite an impressive feat!)

  • Taking a walking tour of the 'secret alleys and ginnels of London City' that turned out to be an exploration of one man's three-generation-deep obsession with Fleet Street and the history of newsprint in the capital, ending with Samuel Johnson's cat - not quite what it said on the tin, but still fascinating and evocative, especially the description of the presses making the ground tremble for miles around

  • Wandering around the Tate in the evening after work, just because it was there and I could (and now have +1 membership for the year if anybody wants to come see anything?)

  • Learning the routine of the commute, and exactly where to walk and stand and the sneaky short-cuts and the weaving dances and the other exits (and the impossibly cheerful platform announcer who ends every update with a beautiful laid-back Rastamouse-ish 'no problem')

  • Resisting the temptation to touch the tube trains as they rush by (also nothing is on fire)

  • Working too hard and staying too late but making stuff exist where it didn't that morning (and maybe saving lives, and winning clients, and making money, and proving worth, and building a career, and making things look beautiful, and suggesting and imagining and creating)

  • Managing to be late (but not in a towel) to my own birthday party, which accidentally started several hours early in a Mexican restaurant and descended into a chaos of coloured shots and corsets and wolfhoods and very messy madness (and may be the last time anyone ever lets me be Responsible Adult... until the next time)

  • Managing to end up on the pages of 'Goths up trees' in spite of not being up a tree at the time

  • Failing to make two parties and numerous club nights, after completely underestimating how much this city draws upon both your energy and your bank balance

  • Repeatedly failing at housework due to being nowhere near the house at the time (can suddenly see why so many people here have cleaners)

  • Watching London turn white, and then a million shades of grey again

  • Walking home in the dark past workmen cutting down sections of railings, sending a fountain of sparks leaping higher than a bus

  • Ancient clock towers just sitting there minding their own business, and gorgeous old tombs and gravestones that are simply part of the scenery

  • Meeting lots of new London folk, and finally putting faces to names I've seen online for years, and catching up with people I've not seen in too long

  • Delightful visitors who arrived bearing just the right amount of chaos

  • All kinds of planned and impromptu evenings in and out, and spending quality time with quality people

  • Madness and beauty and adventures and games

  • Cupcakes and beer and we're going to have a DJ in the basement just as soon as we can find some turntables

  • Discovering all kinds of convincing arguments about why my bit of London is the only REAL bit of London (although it's all mine, really)

  • The river at night... always

  • Counting a 30 minute walk as standard transportation, instead of automatically jumping in the car

  • Exploring new pubs and restaurants, and introducing people who have lived here for years to some of them

  • Shopping in little local bowls-of-vegetables-outside-on-the pavement shops (and finally cooking from scratch in new flat)

  • Surviving first flat inspection in spite of turning the bathroom pink (and, on a related note, going sort-of-um-ginger instead)

  • Walking and walking and walking and slowly piecing together the map in my head (while still leaving plenty of room for dragons, and secret kingdoms, and cheese, and things not to be where you left them because it all switches round while your back is turned)

  • Going back to Leeds for Wendyhouse, which was a very strange experience, because it felt like stepping backwards (not that Leeds is somehow backwards from London, just that it was too soon after I'd left and so felt... odd - hopefully next time I visit it will all feel like part of the onwards and upwards)

  • Introducing Kris to London, and being surprised (and impressed) by how well he handled it

  • Looking forward to more people visiting from Leeds and elsewhere (and some long-distance Skype-based girlie nights too)

  • Making all the exciting plans in the world for the coming days, weeks and months (and knowing half of them will fall apart, but that even more interesting things will pop up to take their place)

  • Being wide open to everything the world has to offer right here and right now

  • This feels like spring.
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 07:10 pm (UTC)
Here's to stuff and fun!
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 10:17 pm (UTC)
I definitely replied to this - once by accident with the reply meant for Alice, and once on purpose, and I didn't think I deleted any of them. Maybe LJ doesn't like science?
Wednesday, February 29th, 2012 01:23 pm (UTC)
Oh, it seems they all migrated back to Alice. Oh well. FOR SCIENCE!!!
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 07:59 pm (UTC)
Oh yeah! We made you the responsible adult! I forgot.
FOR SCIENCE! :D
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 08:18 pm (UTC)
You did indeed, you fools! (I can't actually remember why, but I'm sure it was for a good reason. The only other time it's happened in existence was because our previous responsible adult disqualified herself by sewing herself to her own leg.)
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 09:36 pm (UTC)
We were drunk by the time you arrived? :D
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 09:43 pm (UTC)
This seems a very plausible explanation...
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 09:54 pm (UTC)
I'm giving your crazy bus friend your address so he can come deliver your air pump! :-p
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 10:53 pm (UTC)
*hides*
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 09:52 pm (UTC)
Not even people in Bar 7 ever made me Responsible Adult. Not even after all the shots. So I don't think that's a valid excuse!
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 09:55 pm (UTC)
We were drunk by the time you arrived - and we're idiots? :P
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 09:57 pm (UTC)
There's no 'idiot' in juggling flamethrowers in a volcano!

(I now want to juggle flamethrowers in a volcano... can we?)
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 11:33 pm (UTC)
We didn't technically revoke your status as safety adult, so it's your call! :D
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 11:38 pm (UTC)
Get me 10 million tonnes of magma, stat!

(That'll be enough, right?)

And some marshmallows...
Wednesday, February 29th, 2012 07:33 am (UTC)
The way you didn't need to ask for the the flamethrowers implies that you already own them...

*hides again*
Wednesday, February 29th, 2012 11:47 am (UTC)
I just always assume that if you really REALLY need a flamethrower, the universe will provide one. (This possibly says it all.)
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 08:17 pm (UTC)
Wow, that made me tired just reading! Will come up for some kind of toddler suitable sightseeing soonosh - natural history museum maybe?
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 08:19 pm (UTC)
That's definitely a possibility - one of the guys I work with has toddler-shaped small people so can also ask him for ideas :-)
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 08:20 pm (UTC)
Wow, and that ended up on completely the wrong comment - that could have ended up so very badly out of context!

I was intending to say: FOR SCIENCE!!!
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 08:21 pm (UTC)
That's definitely a possibility - one of the guys I work with has toddler-shaped small people so can also ask him for ideas :-)
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 08:36 pm (UTC)
Are you having lj-comment related issues?!!! We have done science museum before (where there are lots of small-people related things)... will have to find a more sensible route for getting there that doesn't involve walking for 2+ miles in a vaguely lost kind of way when the bus didn't go the route I was expecting.

(also will try and avoid toddlers weeing on the street in whitehall, but can't promise anything ;) )
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 08:55 pm (UTC)
I can meet you at Waterloo and get you there remotely easily without millions of walking if you'd like?
Lots of love
Patrick
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Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 09:52 pm (UTC)
That may be a plain. I think walking over to get the number 9 bus from the strand is farily straight forward (get off at hyde park corner) - it is what we did on the way back anyway!
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 09:55 pm (UTC)
But... but... the 59!
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 10:15 pm (UTC)
The 59 is Patrick's nemesis - it's the Ben Goldacre of oublic transport
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 09:53 pm (UTC)
Can we encourage them to wee in Downing Street instead?
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 10:09 pm (UTC)
Why not, go for it!
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 08:55 pm (UTC)
You missed a bit... Or rather a lot... but that's rather the point of it!
Lots of love
Patrick
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Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 09:53 pm (UTC)
Of course! (That's also why I've been writing this entry for over a week adding and multiplying as I went!)
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 10:07 pm (UTC)
Wasn't the responsible adult part something to do with someone being velcrowed to their tights...or something?
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 10:16 pm (UTC)
That was last time, but nobody would give us fireworks to play with...
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 10:21 pm (UTC)
You mean they were actually going to make you the responsible adult on more than one occasion?

Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 11:36 pm (UTC)
Yes! (The Mayans may have been right about that whole 2012 thing...)
Wednesday, February 29th, 2012 02:18 pm (UTC)
We do it as often as possible. Partly because it unnerves her but mostly so no one else has to do it!
Lots of love
Patrick
XXXX
Wednesday, February 29th, 2012 02:23 pm (UTC)
I'm too innocent to be anybody's responsible adult 0:-)

(Also, I just discovered I can change my user pic on comments - how cool is that?!)
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 10:48 pm (UTC)
:) :) :)

25 years here and still in love with London, which you so well reminded me I am!:)
Tuesday, February 28th, 2012 11:36 pm (UTC)
:-)

Indeed. I think I may stay. You know, just for a while...